Asking
for a Recommendation
by
ResumeEdge.com
- The Net's Premier Resume Writing and Editing Service
Writing
a letter of recommendation requires considerable effort. Don't just blurt
out a request to a supervisor or instructor you see walking down the hallway.
Choose your letter writers carefully, and plan out your timing and approach.
Most importantly, don't procrastinate.
1. ASK SOMEONE
WHO KNOWS YOU WELL
When deciding
on whom to ask for a letter of recommendation, don't simply think of those
classes or projects in which you have done well: think of those instructors
or supervisors who are most familiar with your work and achievements. Admissions
readers look for evidence of the letter writer's familiarity with your
work. Without this type of evidence, the letter lacks credibility and force.
College and
Graduate School Applicants: If you are applying to an academic program,
it's preferable to have letters of recommendation from upper-level course
instructors. Remember that, although letters from senior professors are
often more impressive than ones penned by teaching assistants, most senior
faculty members receive large numbers of recommendation requests. Depending
on the size of your college, senior professors sometimes must teach a wide
variety of courses. As a result, they seldom come into close contact with
undergraduates. While you might be tempted to request a letter from a tenured
academic superstar, refrain from doing so unless you know the recommendation
will be strong. An impressive signature will not compensate for a lukewarm
letter; in that case, it's much better to have a stellar letter from a
junior faculty member of TA who knows you well and can comment on your
specific abilities and achievements. Keep in mind that sometimes a professor
will be willing to co-sign a letter written by a TA, or will simply adapt
and then sign a letter written by a TA.
Business
School, Professional School, and Job Applicants: When applying to business
schools, professional schools, and jobs, you should ideally have a letter
from your current employer. If you have not been at your current job for
very long, you might instead ask a former employer who is familiar with
your work and achievements. The same rule of thumb described above applies
here: although you might feel tempted to request a letter from your company's
CEO, refrain from doing so unless that CEO is indeed knowledgeable about
your accomplishments. Your direct supervisors will generally be far more
familiar with your work history and style, drafting a far more effective
letter.
2. ASK EARLY
College and
Graduate School Applicants: Don't wait until the last minute. Instructors
are invariably flooded with recommendation requests at the end of the semester
(as well as near application deadlines), and you don't want your letter
to end up just one more item in a long To Do list. Likewise, be sure to
take into account foreseeable busy periods at work and common holidays
such as end-of-the-year vacations.
If you approach
your instructor a few months before the deadline, you will avoid putting
him or her under undue pressure, and you give him/her plenty of time to
ponder your performance. As the deadline approaches, you can always send
the letter of recommendation writer a friendly reminder of the impending
deadline. A quick email or phone call should do the trick -- but don't
err on the side of pestering your letter writer.
A note on timing:
it's never a bad idea to begin cultivating relationships with key instructors
early on in your academic career. Participate in class discussions, visit
your instructors during office hours, and show an active interest in their
research. Catching your instructor's attention doesn't necessarily make
you a sycophant, and standing out among your peers might prove very useful
later on when you actually request letters of recommendation.
Whether you
are in high school, college, or graduate school, don't wait until your
last year to ask for letters. If you took a fascinating course your sophomore
year and did particularly well in it, ask your professor for a letter at
the end of the semester -- even if you don't plan on filling out applications
until your senior year. Most professors (or rather, their secretaries and
assistants) keep copies of letters filed or saved for future reference;
if you show up two years hence requesting a recommendation, that professor
will already have a written record of your accomplishments.
Business
School, Professional School, and Job Applicants: Whereas academic letter
writers usually have a great deal of practice writing letters of recommendation,
company employees -- even in the higher echelons -- vary widely in their
experiences with recommendations. This is one among many great reasons
to get the process started as early as you can.
In addition,
it's a good idea to continuously build your recommendation portfolio. Ask
your employer or supervisor to write you a letter whenever you leave a
job, branch, or office (assuming you are leaving in good terms) where you
have a made a considerable contribution to the firm. A copy of the letter
will prove invaluable later on if you ever decide to go for an MBA or apply
for a position that requires such a letter, and it will help your by-then
former employer to remember your specific qualities and accomplishments.
3. ASK PERSONALLY
When asking
someone to write you a letter of rec, don't simply send an email or leave
a voicemail message. It's to your advantage to ask the person face-to-face;
not only does this allow you to clarify any doubts about the request, it
automatically conveys to the recommendation writer just how important this
letter is to you.
4. VOLUNTEER
INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR PLANS
About yourself.
Many instructors and supervisors deal with dozens of recommendation requests
every year. Even if you are a stellar student or employee, they might not
remember that smashingly astute comment you made on Kant's Categorical
Imperative back in March, or the speed with which you smoothened loan negotiations
during that Korea project. Along with the letter of recommendation form
and materials (see below), include a vivid reminder of your past accomplishments,
particularly those with which your instructor or supervisor is already
familiar. You might include a resume, a pared-down version of your personal
statement, and/or a relevant writing sample (preferably one written for
that particular instructor, and one which earned you a high grade or evaluation).
About Your
Plans. If you intend to study agronomy and your instructor is under
the impression you are planning on pursuing astronomy, your admissions
readers might end up with either a hysterical or quizzical letter of recommendation.
Make sure that your letter of recommendation writer is aware of your plans,
even if they seem hazy to you at this point. State your plans clearly:
"Mr. Guzman, I am applying to Colby College." "Prof. Leary, I am applying
to the PhD program in biochemistry at the University of Iowa." "Hank, I
am applying to the Information Technology track of ISU's MBA program."
Write down your plans somewhere; that way, Mr. Guzman, Prof. Leary, and
Hank won't get confused.
Again, handing
in a concise outline or summary of your personal statement is not a bad
idea, especially if you focus on your achievements in that instructor's
class or under his/her supervision. Also consider giving your instructor
or supervisor a copy of your resume, which should remind him/her that you
are an individual with both focus and broad interests.
5. PROVIDE
THE LETTER WRITER WITH ALL THE NECESSARY MATERIALS
Most applications
include specific forms for letter of recommendation writers. They often
ask for both a written-out statement and a series of ranking or short questions.
If you are asking your instructor for several versions of the letter --
for instance, if you are applying to a number of schools -- you might remind
him/her that the statement need not be written directly on the sheet itself;
it can simply be stapled to the form.
Always
provide your letter of recommendation writer with stamped envelopes. If
you are asking for multiple letters, it's a good idea to organize all the
forms in one folder and include a cover sheet with a list of the schools
for which you are requesting letters. Remember to include envelopes of
the appropriate size, and overestimate the value of stamps (remember that
the instructor might attach extra pages to the form).
Some applications
require the instructor to return the letter to you in a sealed envelope.
Don't forget to ask the writer to sign across the flap of the envelope.
Finally, you
might consider providing the letter writer with a diskette for saving a
copy of the letter. Chances are the letter writer saves these letters on
his hard-drive anyway, but a new diskette might serve as a reminder of
the importance of keeping a backfile. Letters, after all, have been lost
in the mail before -- not to mention in admissions offices, which are flooded
with mail around each application deadline -- and there's always a chance
you might have to ask for a second copy to be sent out.
6. WAIVE
YOUR RIGHT TO READ THE LETTER
Federal Law
grants you access to your letters of recommendation, but many applications
include a form where you can waive your rights to read the letter. We highly
recommend that you waive your right to read the letter when given the option
to do so. Waiving your right reassures the admissions readers that the
instructor has written a candid letter -- that is, without the bothersome
pressure of knowing that you might read it one day. Studies have shown
that confidential letters carry far more weight with admissions readers.
In addition,
letter of recommendation writers are far more comfortable writing a complete,
candid letter when they know the applicant will not have access to the
text. If you fear that the letter writer might not do justice to your achievements
or might include negative information -- well, that's a good sign you should
not be asking that person for a letter of recommendation.
7. SEND A
THANK-YOU NOTE
Always send
your letter of recommendation writer a thank-you note after you know the
letter has been sent out -- whether or not you have heard from the school.
Don't wait to long to do this: a week or two is a good timeline. Of course,
if you are eventually admitted to that coveted program or land that sought-after
job, you might want to call up your letter writer to share your good news
and thank him/her once again. Never hurts to quietly share your success,
especially with those who helped you to achieve it.
Note for
Business and Law School Applicants
The same rules
above apply for business and law school applications, but these are often
a bit morute aborate than regular college or graduate degree applications.
Many business and law school applications spell out exactly what information
they will be looking for in the letter of recommendation forms. The instructions
will often include specific sub-questions such as:
Please provide
us with a concrete instance in which the applicant demonstrated his or
her leadership skills.
What
are the applicant's main strengths?
What are
the applicant's main weaknesses?
What will
this applicant contribute to our program?
Letters that contain
concrete, vivid anecdotes supporting their claims are stronger than ones
that fail to go beyond abstract generalizations. Likewise -- and this is
particularly true of that pesky question about your weaknesses -- letters
that balance achievement with a candid assessment of perceived weaknesses
are far more convincing than letters that contain only superlative comments.
Admissions readers, even those at the top schools, are not interested in
flawless candidates: because flawless candidates don't exist. They are
interested in people who are willing to tackle challenges and learn from
their mistakes; thus, the best b-school letters of recommendation balance
praise, candidness, concrete evidence, and convey both focus, breadth,
enthusiasm, and resilience.
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